A little advice about making contact. Generally there are a lot more men around than women. So the men are going to have to work a lot harder at it. Just be as honest and straitforward as you can, talk as much if not more about who you are rather than what you want. Remember we're not just a load of dom(me)s and subs or masters/mistresses and slaves but people with characters and personalities. Please respect each other and each other's limits and if someone really isn't interested in you, please don't pester them;-) OK

Contact Resources

• bdsmindonesia's very own personal ads section
• Alt.com
  A great way to find people, although you need to sort through some irrelevant ads. Free service, pay for upgrades. The free service allows you to browse but not search, limits the number of profiles you can browse per day and only allows you to send one email per day. You need to register as a member, which is free, then just browse to Indonesia and select categories according to taste.